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What Does A Maid Of Honor Have To Do?

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If you are reading this article about being a Maid of honor, then congratulations. A dear friend who is getting married has chosen you to be by their side on their special wedding day. Being chosen as a Maid of Honor should not feel like a burden, you were chosen because you can be trusted to be the brides right hand man. Here is a list of the top 10 things you need to do to be the best Maid of Honor you can be.

1: Sit down with the Bride and make a list of the things she expects you to do. There is no point assuming anything when it comes to a Bride. The only way to know is to ask and make a list.

2:  Contact all the Bridesmaids and give them your own contact details as well as introduce yourself if you don’t already know them. These other bridesmaids will need to be on the same page as you and creating a bond and trust will set the scene for you being the best Maid of Honor.

3: Plan the Bridal shower and bachelorette party. Don’t assume anything ask the Bride if you are to plan this and did she have any “ideas” already.

4: Rally the troops for the Dress shopping. It’s going to take a while. Make sure dress shopping is planned ahead with lot’s of time to include drinks and lunch break and hopefully ALL the bridesmaid at the same time. No one should be shopping Hangry. Make sure the bride sticks to her budget and everyone is well aware of their costs BEFORE you head out.

5: Co-ordinate any dress fittings that are required for the Bride and the Bridesmaids

6: Check on the Best man make sure he is doing all the things the Bride expects of him.

7: Make sure the Bride has everything under control. If she needs help licking 100 stamps then make sure you are available.

8: Write a kick ass speech that lasts no longer then 5 mins.

9: Ask the bride what your wedding day duties are, learn them, practice them and have it all organized BEFORE the wedding day. pack any small things you think the bride might need such as an Emergency bridal kit. lipstick, stain remover bad, bandaid, advil, breath freshner, tampons, deodorant, hair pins,sewing kit, safety pin. Etc etc.

10:  Be there for your Bride. It’s her special day and any drama’s will pass. Don’t loose a friendship over one day.

 

This printed Bridal Emergnecy bag can be bought from our online store and is the perfect way to keep all the items together in a clutch style bag.

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How to Make DIY Shower Jellies – Lush-Inspired, Kid-Friendly and Naturally Scented

If your morning shower feels more like a chore than a treat, it’s time to shake things up—literally. These DIY shower jellies are bouncy, fun, and scented with natural essential oils that turn your bath or shower into a playful spa moment. Inspired by Lush but made at home for a fraction of the cost, they’re perfect for kids, tweens, or anyone who wants a little joy added to their self-care routine.

Best part? You can tailor the scent, color, and shape to match your mood, season, or even holiday gifts. I’ve made everything from zesty lemon sunbursts in summer to calming lavender moons for bedtime wind-downs. My teens love them, and even Aloo (our cheeky pup) tries to sneak a sniff.

What Are Shower Jellies?

Shower jellies are squishy, soap-based gels that clean like body wash but jiggle like jelly. They melt on skin contact, lather up beautifully, and add a bit of tactile joy to your daily scrub. Think wobbly soap that feels like toy-slash-skincare.

Ingredients (All-Natural Option)

  • 1 tablespoon unflavored gelatin (or 1 tbsp agar agar for vegan version) 
  • 3/4 cup boiling water 
  • 1/4 cup liquid castile soap (or SLS-free body wash) 
  • 10–20 drops essential oil (lavender, citrus, eucalyptus – your call) 
  • Optional: skin-safe mica powder or natural food coloring 
  • Optional: dried botanicals (lavender buds, calendula petals) 
  • Silicone molds or ice cube tray 

Instructions

Step 1: Boil & Bloom
 In a heatproof bowl, whisk the gelatin into the boiling water until fully dissolved. This is your jelly base—make sure there are no lumps. If using agar agar, simmer for a couple of minutes for full gelling power.

Step 2: Add the Fun Stuff
 Once smooth, stir in your liquid soap, essential oils, and any color or botanicals. I love using pink clay for a rosy tint or a few drops of lemon essential oil for a fresh, morning zing.

Step 3: Mold It
 Pour your mixture into silicone molds or an ice cube tray. Let cool at room temp for about 10 minutes, then pop into the fridge for 2–3 hours until set.

Step 4: Pop Out & Store
 Once firm, gently remove your shower jellies from the mold. Store them in an airtight container in the fridge if your bathroom is steamy, or a lidded jar by the shower in cooler months.

How to Use Shower Jellies

Simply grab one in the shower, squish it between your hands or rub directly on your skin to lather up. They glide easily and rinse clean, leaving your skin soft and lightly scented. For extra cooling, keep them chilled and use post-sun or after a workout.

Tips & Variations

  • Sleepytime Blend: Lavender + chamomile essential oil 
  • Energy Boost: Orange + peppermint (keep away from eyes!) 
  • Holiday Jellies: Add glitter (biodegradable) and candy cane scent for stocking stuffers 
  • Kid-Safe: Use unscented baby body wash and natural fruit coloring

These DIY shower jellies are pure joy in a jar. Whether you’re making them for your little ones, holiday gifting, or your own self-care stash, they add a bouncy boost to your bath time. Bonus: They’re easy to make in big batches, so get ready for a fridge full of jiggly, wiggly goodness.