Be Yourself, Together with Target Wedding

Target is one of my favorite destinations, so I was so happy to be invited to share in their “Be Yourself, Together” registry program. It’s no secret that opposites attract, especially when it comes to personal style in a relationship! My challenge was to select an item from the Target Wedding Registry, pair it up with a very different item, and then create a story that harmoniously blends the two.

When I saw the SwissGear luggage in the registry, a whole storyline popped into my head about a couple I call Max & Finley. Max {The Adventurer} is a photographer who loves to travel the world capturing images of exotic locales. Finley {The Nester} is a city girl whose idea of exotic is takeout from the local Thai restaurant down the block.

Finley works in an office all day, so when she comes home she likes to relax in comfort. She loves to set the mood with soft music, comfortable throws and cushions, and she especially loves scented candles. Max feels at home anywhere, but now that Finley will be accompanying him on many of his journeys, how can The Adventurer and The Nester bring a bit of home comfort with them?

With battery operated candles of course! When I went shopping at Target for the second item to go with the luggage, I thought about candles as the perfect registry item for The Nester. But regular candles aren’t always travel-friendly. As I explored the candle aisle, I was thrilled to find flameless versions that can be easily tucked into the side pocket of a carry on bag for safe transport.

Now the happy couple can have the romance of candlelight whether they’re nesting together at home, or camping in a tent in the wilderness! Best wishes to The Nester & The Adventurer, and many thanks to Target for sponsoring this post. Be sure to follow along with the Be Yourself, Together theme with #TargetWedding.

Content and/or other value provided by our partner, Target.

Read These Next

f you’ve ever stared at the ceiling at 3 a.m., listened to the hum of the fridge from across the house, or contemplated reorganizing your sock drawer again just to kill time until morning, you’re not alone—I’ve been there. I’m a long-time insomniac, and it has taken me years (and a small mountain of trial and error) to figure out a sleep routine that works even a little bit. Along the way, I’ve discovered that sometimes, the simplest things—like a handmade sleep mask or a comforting heat pack—can make the biggest difference. I am also a big fan of Lavender oil, but I have to stop using it every few months and give it a break then use it again.

Sewing became not just a hobby for me, but a soothing pre-bedtime ritual. It’s the calm before the not-so-calm. And even if I still don’t sleep like a log, I now have an entire collection of cozy, calming, and comforting sewn items that definitely help me drift off faster (or at least keep me comfy while I lie awake counting alpacas).

So if you or someone you love struggles with sleep, here are 15 of the best sewing projects I’ve found—and made—that are perfect for battling insomnia. Whether it’s calming scents, gentle weight, or just pure comfort, these DIYs are all about turning your bedtime space into a soothing sanctuary.

Let’s dive in and sew our way to sweet dreams (or at least better nights)

Blanket Hoodie Free Sewing Pattern

Make Your Own Blanket Hoodie, Just like a Oodie – Sewing Pattern

Wheat Heat Pack — CraftBits.com

MAKE A BLANKET HOODIE: How I made my Autism Sensory Cocoon

Make a Weighted Sensory Vest for Adults : 4 Steps (with Pictures) – Instructables

Weighted comfort toy

Weighted, Scented Stuffed Animal : 5 Steps – Instructables

Eye pillow

How to make an eye mask

Learn to Make Blackout Curtains in Less than 10 Minutes!

How to Make Blackout Curtains – Step By Step Sewing Tutorial

Lavender Neck Roll

Free pattern: Cat Nap aromatherapy pillow – Sewing

DIY sensory compression sheet – Heather’s Handmade Life

DIY Snuggle Blanket with Sleeves for Kids and Adults – Creative Blog

Here are some more articles from across our blog on Insomnia

How Much CBD Oil Should I Take For Insomnia?

Night time Cherry Smoothie For Insomnia and Weightloss – Bath and Body

10 Bath and Body Recipes that will help you sleep.

15 Obscure Reasons You May Not Be Sleeping Properly

Your pillow smells weird (to your brain)
Even if you think it smells fine, subtle shifts in scent can disrupt your brain’s sense of safety and comfort. Your brain is weird like that.
Your magnesium levels are low
Magnesium helps regulate melatonin and muscle relaxation. A deficiency can cause restless sleep or leg cramps that wake you up.
You’re sleeping in synthetic fabrics
Some polyester blends trap heat and moisture, which can subtly increase your body temp and mess with your REM cycles.
Your clock is ticking… literally
That wall clock or wristwatch ticking in the corner? You might think you’ve tuned it out, but your subconscious hasn’t. Hello, micro-stress.
Your bedtime stories are too exciting (even if they’re podcasts)
True crime, mystery audiobooks, even dramatic fiction can get your adrenaline going—just enough to keep you wired.
You’re sleeping in a “geopathic stress zone”
It sounds woo-woo, but people who believe in this say underground water lines or magnetic fields under your bed can impact sleep quality.
Your ceiling fan is too fast
Ceiling fans can dry out your sinuses or subtly make your body think it needs to stay alert. Weird, right?
You’re unknowingly clenching your jaw all night
Bruxism (aka teeth grinding) doesn’t always wake you up, but it can prevent you from ever getting into deep sleep.
Your blood sugar dips overnight
This can cause your cortisol to spike, waking you up suddenly with anxiety or sweats at 2 a.m. A small, protein-rich snack before bed might help.
You’re too hydrated
Sounds healthy, but if you’re waking up to pee more than once a night, you might be overhydrating before bed. Try tapering off liquids after dinner.
Your sleeping direction
Feng Shui fans swear by sleeping with your head facing certain directions for better energy flow (and fewer nightmares).
Your mattress is full of static electricity
Especially in dry climates, synthetic mattresses or sheets can create static that subtly irritates your skin while you sleep.
You’ve got light sneaking in through your eyelids
Even faint light from a charger or hallway can disrupt melatonin production if your eyelids are thin or you’re extra light-sensitive.
Your nighttime supplements are stimulating
Some sleep supplements contain hidden caffeine sources (like green tea extract) or B vitamins that can actually energize you.
You associate your bed with frustration
If you’ve had too many sleepless nights in the same bed, your brain might start associating it with stress. Sometimes switching things up (new bedding, rearranging furniture) can help reset that mental link.

Read These Next

Have you read?

15 Obscure Reasons You May Not Be Sleeping Properly